In Praise of Socks.

There are many aspects of life that have become so routine that we as a culture, and as a species tend to overlook the value that they afford. I have often mentioned the ubiquitous sun, moon, stars~*, and rain, but there are a myriad of other examples that prove to be equally as powerful. Today, I will focus on those which provide protection, warmth, security, support, solace, and offer a medium for self-expression as "God shuffles His feet." I am referring to, SOCKS of course.

Socks are present in a seemingly unlimited variety of sizes, styles, colors, and designs. They provide warmth from the cold, and protection (from blisters and the harsh terrain of the world) in the heat. they are indispensable to the human race, but to most people socks are an invisible and under-appreciated constituent of their daily routines. Commonly, socks are treated as the second-class citizens of our wardrobes. They are mixed, matched, lost, forgotten, ripped, sewed, stepped on, used as cleaning devices, and completely overlooked. It is difficult to argue with the sentiment that putting on socks which are immediately retrieved from the dryer on a bleak winter's night could end wars, quash suffering, inspire epics, or manifest smiles (just to name a few).

I have often noted that there are so many roads in life that lead us to our eventual destinations. Our lives are defined by the journeys we take along these roads. During the vast majority of these journeys it is our feet that lead the way and the socks upon those feet that carry us "home."

I am sure that George Washington was wearing socks when he traversed the cold New Jersey terrain en route to his headquarters in Morristown. I would bet that Thomas Jefferson was wearing socks (mostly) when he penned the Declaration of Independence. I might even venture a guess to say that Julius Caesar had his Roman feet clothed in somewhat of a stocking when he and his army crossed the Rubicon: "Alia Iacta [Sockus]" (he could not wear sandals all the time?). Mick Jagger most likely wore socks as he rocked the world over (albeit ugly socks, and sometimes socks may have been the ONLY article of clothing he was wearing). Perhaps if brave Achilles was wearing a supportive pair of tube socks (undoubtedly as his mother lovingly reminded him) his infamous heel may have been spared. As Shakespeare sat by the fire eternally conveying Romeo's dying love for Juliet (and forever changing man/womankind's perspective on love) I am sure that socks warmed his feet and his heart~* Finally, when King Richard the Lion-Hearted marched his army out of the Holy Land during the 4th Crusade only to later return in search of the crucifix upon which Jesus Christ had died, it was most definately because he forgot his socks at HOME!

I love my socks. My new socks, my old socks, my tall socks, my short socks, my socks with holes (skylights for my toes), my socks with white seams, my socks with red seams, my socks with designs, my plain old white socks, EVEN my electric socks. WHen i was born the first article of clothes that adorned my fragile premature body was a pair of tiny, blue socks. When I die, they will have to remove a pair of socks from my clinging feet. As "I walk through the valley of the shadow of death" it is my humble and supreme wish that I am wearing socks, but not wet socks, I HATE WET SOCKS!

So this post is dedicated to socks all over the world! Thank you for all that you do! Everyone appreciates you, even if they do not acknowledge it. Although you are always down around my feet, I will always look UP to you!!!

Falling Stars~* caught in my Eyelashes...

She came to me, her voice trembling with the velocity of a plucked cello string.

"My heart is sooo broken." she said.

It was mid-June. We were beneath the street light. As a child I was always fascinated with how each street light, reaching high into the trees, cast its light on the same leaves, every night, all night -- each year--for decades. Like those leaves, a select few, were members of an exclusive society. protected, or exposed --by the light. I wanted to be one of those leaves. i wanted to leave. i wanted to be in the light amongst the dark.

"Joey, did you hear me? My heart...it is SOOO broken."

I did, in fact, hear her. I heard her truth, quite clearly. A truth not very disimilar to the truths I had become accostomed to. I had instinctively, innocently, retreated into the blissful blanket of my youth. To escape her plea. It was my achilles heel. achilles heal. achille heel.

"JOEY!!! You always have so much to say...you always make me feel better!?! I need you, Joey, i need you now." She trailed off into a whisper.

Or was it just the night breeze? Strange things are carried on the breeze in the summer night. Sirens from afar, lovers' whispers, silent prayers, the hum and murmur of the summer insects, the fragile, indestructable sounds of teenagers creating themselves...I always had the ability to say the right things to help others cope with their tribulations. I could soothe their souls. None of them really knew. I could trace the roads on a map of the human heart, but I could not even help myself. To her I was an omniscient being. I always appeared to have complete control over human emotions. I could see behind the smoke and mirrors that obscured the path to happiness. But, not tonight. She found the crack in my boat. She stumbled upon my "undiscovered country."

"Joey, you know how I feel. Tell me the world is still beautiful, tell me that the sun, the moon, the stars, and the rain, will always be there to provide me ---uh, and you, with solace. TELL ME? What is wrong? You always said that love finds a way...you said love is more powerful, DIDN't YOU? Cmon...say something...bring me back...wrap your wings around me...."

Depraved Heart Murder. Under the commonlaw it is defined as a murder commited with “an abandoned and malignant heart”, “a wicked disposition”, “hardness of heart”, “an extreme and reckless disregard for human decency and human regard." It requires a mens rea without intent. It is an unintential murder, involuntary. It happens when a person acts with complete recklessness and indifference to another person. Figuratively, people commit depraved heart murders all the time. When they murder another person's hopes, dreams, lives, happiness, plans, expectations, rainbows, desires. Perhaps it is unintentional, but commited with an "abandoned and malignant heart." I had been the victim of depraved heart murder. Many others have felt the sting of a cracked and broken heart. I had nothing to offer her. As I lay dying, painting my futile escape in the blood still leaking from my eyes and from my chest through an invisible wound. A wound barely held together by a butterfly stitch. by a butterfly kiss.

"it's getting cold. My coffee is cold. My stomach hurts all the time -- every day. I have not slept in weeks. I have nightmares...nightmares of wonderful memories shattered. Joey, save me, help me...please."

I do believe in death, because I too, have loved. Falling stars were caught in my eyelashes. All i could see was the light. I stared into this girl's little hurt girl eyes. My lips parted...but like a child, caught in the wrath of pavor nocturnus, I could only manage a strained internal breath. I was not ready yet. I was still bleeding. bleeding stars, through healing scars...

"I...just...can't. I just feel so powerless..I..." she began to cry. just a little bit.

I experienced a crescendo of feeling. Like being overcome by the tide. I wanted to tell her that everything is eventual. pain is eventual, sadness is eventual, love & lust are eventual. everything is eventual. The air was mangled, her hair was mangled. I wanted to hold her like a baby. with baby's breath. I wanted to wrap her in the warm night sky. I wanted to recite every Shakespearean sonnet to rescue all the love in the world. I wanted to give her a little piece of myself. A piece of my broken heart.

"My mother told me to move on. She said that time heals everything, that I have so much promise...she does not understand how I feel." she stuttered.

Move on? We do not move on. cliches never healed anyone. We move WITH. If only we could sever the ribbon that connects our hearts to our minds. Impossible. We have to find our own way through the unhearts....through the persistence of memories that swirl and whir always, around us. That spin with gentle intermingling like smoke rising in the night sky. Will they not fade away? not fade away...away....

"Why aren't you saying anything? You always have so much hope. Tonight you are silent just staring. Hand me your flannel coat. Im cold. Where have your been?"

_______

"all by all and deep by deep

and more by more they dream their sleep

noone and anyone earth by april

wish by spirit and if by yes.

Women and men.

summer autumn winter spring

reaped their sowing and went their came

sun moon stars rain."

_______

"Joey, your hair looks nice like that. You look nice in the night. I am not used to you being so quiet. You deserve the world, you deserve a love that would outshine the sun. I am so sorry if all of this has caused you to re-experience any pain. I just thought you would have something to say...something beautiful, something pretty."

For all of the meek living victims of depraved heart murder, I remain steadfast in my commitment to raise my proud flag. that flag, our flag, which is a million miles long and a million miles wide bearing a giant heart~* sewn with the whispered dreams of our pure intentions. with our good graces...with our gentle glances...with our timid breathing...I will make others fall before me with the intensity of my eyes, with the intensity of my ability to love...lovelovelovelovelovelovelovelovelovelovemeloveloveloveyoulovelovelovelovelovelovelovelove...She will overcome.

"I will be ok...right? nothing is as bad as it seems at the time. i know it...my heart just feels so heavy...my limbs feel like they weigh a thousand pounds...i feel like i can't even walk.

JOEY, my heart is soooo broken...

...it's sooo broken...my heart is so broken...please say something, just say anything..." she barely breathed the last words out.

At that moment, I felt stronger than i have ever had. all of my past identities hung before me, carried on the wings of the summer night's fireflies...blinking and shining blinking and shining...My heart was filling up with liquid love. So many beautiful girls...shaped like perfect violins. I felt the hysterical shocks of electricity pulse through my nerves and cells. I was again a child with all the wonder of a world unknown, I was a teenager inspired by the sheer excitement of forever and always, I was a harvester of poetry, I was a young lover, I was a broken hearted romantic endlessly reciting little black lovesick valentines. I was all of the stars~* reflected in the sea hundreds of miles from land, I was a little girl's summer sneeze, a small boy's skinned summer knees, I was the secret summer kiss behind the evening barn, I was the innocent holding hands when no one was looking, I was the red balloon passed from hand to hand, I was the streaming tear dividing that perfect face, I was her perfect hair blowing in that perfect breeze, I was that elder lover clutching at the escaping sand, I was that fierce sun burning the yearning summer ground, I was that quiet moon whispering those softly spoken lullabies, I was those pretend flowers that never died, I was those untrue confessions that never lied, I was that august night that never ended, I was that beautiful memory that has long since faded, I was that unsure cynic on the brink of death, I was that accomplished aesthetic who had truly lived, I was that heroic soothsayer who truly died, I was that sensitive man who always cried, I was the chasing love behind that departing train, I was the screaming one standing in the summer rain....

I suddenly had the answer, I found the words to say what a broken heart cannot say. Trembling with hope and passion and love, I looked up at her. Her eyes open, inviting, waiting with baited breath....

I breathed in deeply and released the billion stars that were waiting behind my eyes and mouth...

"Joey?!?" she exclaimed with the joy and hope of forever of always...

My lips parted....I placed my hand in the small of her back, and brushed the hair from her eyes....

"Let's go inside, I will make you some tea, and we can sit along the fire and talk about tomorrow." I spoke with serenity.

She looked up at me with much contentment and a growing smile and said, "Yeah, that sounds really nice."

________

"a wind has blown the rain away and blown

the sky away and all the leaves away,

and the trees stand. I think i too have known autumn too long

...the trees stand:

The trees, suddenly wait against the moon's face."

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The Rain & Pajamas

People should care more about the rain & about pajamas than they do about stocks & statutes...~*

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*~Destination Constellation~*

"to hold the flower i cant keep." something sorrowed something blue, something hopeful, me and you....
when we were young, everything seemed different....in the summer the sun seemed more orange, everything seemed more orange....in winter the snowflakes seemed much bigger...the night seemed more unlimited...the cracks in the pavement seemed more meaningful...a rainstorm smelled impossible...its all about the after glow...sleepovers stole our hearts...and the most pain we suffered was upon hearing our parents yell to us from up the street to come home for the night...youth...unlimited imagination, unlimited beauty...indestructible...was it the chemicals between us...those life-affirming chemicals....hormones...was it the age of innocence? incense? intents?
that first kiss...the world moved so fast...and so slow....in every direction...explosions of color, lust, pain, happiness...falling through the evening...it was never later than we thought...i was much later than we thought...you seemed so tired? a day's past retired...all of those hearts....tucked deep inside our beds....all of those ideas frozen in our heads...
the world was a painted canvas...the sun glued to the sky...the moon a flashlight for the vampires...the street a river dividing my house from their house, from your house, to their house...our bodies so fragile...that first kiss....innocent...free from the stain of adult corruption and lascivious intentions...that first kiss...we could not get that smile to leave our face...smiles for miles and miles and miles....
a sea-change~* it is never too late to see life as we used to...adulthood and all the deafening silence that shadows the wonder of youth is only a mere cataract in the eyes of misguided and yearning people who have been led astray...our eye discourses...i will follow it...that street, that sun, that moon, that rain, those stars...that summer, that winter, they are always there. they did not leave...our purpose, our innocence, left....catch the light...we need a sea-change...we should have, we could have...................remember that hiding place? remember that secret space? remember that destination, that constellation? destination constellation. the night will embrace us...and hold us until we remember how to be...to be...we can still be afraid of vampires...vampyres...it is still dark...sea-change...we need a sea-change...the sound of a million violins sighing....pull your covers over your head...that universe is still there...IT remembers YOU...forgetting when, remember how...fall beneath the waterline...a sea-change...

everything has begun and ended,
always is about to begin,
forever lies with the sunset in tomorrow~*

nobody, not even the rain, has such small hands.

"(forgetting me, remember me)" Is there anything prettier than the changing of the seasons? i almost feel that just as my interest in one season begins to wane, another one is either ascending or descending.
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That mighty backwards fall. into the arms of that...girl. that girl? that girl...i do not know if you noticed that i used the word "prettier" above, instead of "beautiful." Perhaps "beautiful" is overused today, rendering it, well, not as "beautiful" as it once was. The word "pretty" seems simpler, more powerful...timeless. Ernest Hemingway knew the value of this word when he chose to end The Sun Also Rises with what might be the greatest closing line of any novel, "wouldn't it be pretty to think so?" Mr. Hemingway quite deliberately, and quite brilliantly chose that word.
Spring appears to have arrived. Just in time. in time. time. thyme. just one more cup of coffee for the road. one more cup of coffee 'fore i go, "to the valley below." whirlpools and bougainvillea pedals. in losing her i found myself. i will find myself. i found myself. there are so many roads in life. so many roads that lead to the human heart. so many roads that will lead us to our eventual destination. so many roads...
answered prayers are prayers answered~* what will become of me? what will become of you? what will become of us when we are old and gray? is it useless to think about it? i wonder if we create our own destiny. Shakespeare wrote "there's a divinity that shapes our ends, rough-hew it as we may." this divinity certainly is not always paved with tulip pedals and raindrops. sometimes our future seems to be as black as the soles of satan's feet. lined with people whose souls are as black as the soles of satan's feet. a saint i ain't. but i do set my heart to the "controls of the sun." tomorrow is saturday mourning. girl x. will you love me for all of my light? will you love me for all of my dark? perspective. one day. with your hand in my hand, we will walk alone, along that tree bend. "wouldn't it be pretty to think so?"
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A Heart that Beats as both Syphon and Reservoir...

Let us begin… how does one initiate living his or her life in the digital age filled with digital ghosts? I suppose that one impetus that a person might use to chronicle his or her life on the internet is the fact that they have reached a crossroads in life and are seeking an outlet to express themselves in the hope of receiving solace. Perhaps that is what has led me here. my life begins again today. this moment. this second. exit under cobalt skies. i did not exist until exactly 17 seconds ago. life, happiness, sadness, joy, and pain, it is all about perspective. Life with all of its truths and consequences continues to move forward as does the sea, “she goes forth out of hands and she returns into hands .”

i think that we redefine ourselves many times throughout our lives. sometimes voluntarily, sometimes involuntarily. it could be a beautiful metamorphosis. our subjective perspective acts like a prism through which the light of experience refracts and bends throughout time and space. it is the little things that matter most, nothing in life is trivial. that may sound very cliché, but the sentiment is so very true. when she wears that dress, it feels like the galaxy compressed. a single glance. a hopeful smile. a paper heart. a summer’s night. a winter’s moon. a new friend. the bitter end. there is beauty even in tragedy. the beauty of that limitless new possibility of the unknown. the topography of the human heart is inconsistent at best. i feel, evolutionarily speaking, that life is circular and that the structure of the human brain is analogous to not only other pheno- and genotypically evolved traits but to the intangible, existential road of a lifetime. the localization of function. the ability to recover. the heart, literally and figuratively, is simultaneously the strongest and weakest human element; it is at times able to withstand the fury of a thousand hurricanes or it can break upon the suggestion of a breeze. a second in time, is that measured in the same manner as the width of a single synapse? It is all about perspective.

in the United States of Conformity, the country where I live, people are always trying to convince each other how lonely or crestfallen they are. this despicable sentiment diffuses itself throughout our entire society, infecting all of us with a disease to which no one is immune. we have to transcend this. Life at any moment presents itself as a harvester of opportunity and possibility. there exist so many things that are bigger than we are. at this very moment a flower is opening in the Amazon, a Sperm Whale and Giant Squid (architeuthus dux) are engaged in a mortal combat in the icy waters of the Antarctic. Perspective arms each and every one of us with the ability to take up arms against insincerity or malady. The world personified - My weeping willow turns into a heart and breaks.
all that we have is time. we can persist for a century or expire tomorrow, and in “that sleep of death” we do not know “what dreams may come.” so please, as you read this, take pause, look around yourself, find the beauty that IS there and say, “well isn’t this nice?” There are elements that are always there to offer comfort and happiness; the sun, the moon, the stars~*, the rain. Life and happiness (true self-actualization) is all a matter of perspective. Mr. Thoreau has wisely noted that “the sun shines just as brightly on the alms house, as on the rich man’s abode.” You can take MY words and cast them off as pretentious rambling, but beware truth does lie within. this i promise you.

Perspective. My life is not as perfect has I had always hoped that it would be at this point, but as i lay here drowning…i learned to breathe water. i will not remain a dull flame. breathe water. in promethean unity i entreat a million cowboys to light their fires. there is a light within me that “will never go out.” we are all in need of a heart that beats as both “syphon and reservoir” to retain all of the blissful memories and discard of the useless happenstance. True Love and true friendship are like the seasons, they change, yet they always remain the same. Perspective. I did not know how best to introduce myself. the above meandering is the only way I know how. That is I. breate water~* As I whisper to you…
“and is with sleep….

love,
the breaking

of your
soul
upon
my lips”

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